Frustration with Mom’s Decision
I’m frustrated with my mom, who has always helped with the kids, but now suddenly claims she’s “too busy.” She wants to enjoy life by attending dance classes and brunches, instead of being there when needed. My wife and I work full-time, and we rely on her for childcare. Now she’s refusing to help. She’s retired, so why is she acting like she can quit being a grandmother when it suits her? I don’t understand why she’s abandoning us now.
Mom’s Response
I love my family and grandkids, but I’m not a full-time babysitter. After raising my own children, I finally have time to enjoy life. I’m 71, my knees hurt, and I can’t do endless babysitting. I’ve given my son support, but now I want to live a little. Dancing and brunch aren’t rebellious; they’re just fun. I’ll help when it really matters, but if he thinks I owe him free childcare forever, maybe he needs to learn some gratitude.
