Ryder’s 18th birthday should have been a celebration, but his father’s absence left him heartbroken. Learning that his dad chose a fishing trip over spending time with him added to his disappointment.
Growing up, Ryder experienced his parents’ divorce at a young age. His dad became distant, preoccupied with work and hobbies, especially fishing. Despite this, Ryder still longed for his father’s attention and approval.
On his birthday, Ryder hoped his dad would show up, but he didn’t. When his dad later gave him a fishing rod, it symbolized his absence, and Ryder realized he could no longer keep waiting. Over time, he learned to focus on those who truly cared for him—his mom and friends—accepting that he couldn’t change his father’s behavior. The fishing rod became a symbol of his personal growth and self-respect.