Last Sunday, as I entered the sanctuary, I saw a woman in her 40s covered in tattoos and piercings. Her bold appearance challenged the traditional view I had always held about church attire.

Growing up, I was taught that church was a place of reverence, where modest clothing showed respect. Seeing her made me question whether these expectations were still relevant. Should there be a dress code for worship?

After the service, I politely suggested that a more subdued look might be appropriate. She simply replied, “How I look has nothing to do with you.” Her words made me reflect—was my discomfort rooted in outdated beliefs rather than any real issue?

Church should be a place of inclusion, not judgment. Personal expression, including tattoos and unique styles, often reflects someone’s journey. If we focus on appearances, we risk overlooking deeper connections.

Finding a balance between tradition and individuality fosters a welcoming environment. What truly matters in worship is not what we wear, but the sincerity of our faith and the openness of our hearts.